In our fight for the existence we look for to make optimum that we can stops leaving in them well and being happy. However, many times in we find them wounded and hurt. The causes can be several, and even though related with us exactly, but normally other people are involved. To live is to relate. Hear other arguments on the topic with Kaihan Krippendorff . No matter how hard let us be solitary, we do not live total alone. In all our relationships, are professional, familiar, loving, spirituals or of friendships – we are not unharmed, we do not leave without scratches or wounds. To cure these wounds, we think that the time is optimum remedy.
A popular thought exists of that the time cure any thing. Following this thought, certain person wrote a council member: ' ' The time passes, waits that pain softens. I thought that the time cured. When? This is the question. For how much time? For how much time I must wait that this knot if dissolves in my throat? How much time until it leaves to feel me as an empty body walking at random? Until the agony of all this tragedy disappears? Even what I forget how much love and feel lack of this person, he also hates and it? I feel, as it was lived in the eternity, as if this suffering does not go to never pass. Please, time cures, me! ' '.
How terrible deceit! The time not cure! For the opposite, it can inflame still more the wound and bring more bitterness. The cure takes time, yes is truth, but the time, by itself, not cure nobody. What to make then? The wounds need to be opened in the presence of God with confidence and sincerity. They need to be amolecidas with the oil of the love of God spilled in our hearts for the Espirito Santo, and espremidas for the truth, with confession and repentance (Is 1:6). When we only deliver in them to the cares of the medical the holy ghost is that we can try cure and release. There yes, and only thus, the time will be counted our favor. H.D.Valim F.